Should you feel uncomfortable, feel like an inferior being in your relationship with a therapist to obtain care for your spiritual well-being? Is trust toward someone a dependency through fear or a freedom through love?
So why do you think you need a particular therapist? Are not there any kinder, more aware and available people in order to feel as important as the other person?
What counts is not to respect a “title”, but to respect human beings, regardless of their title or what they do in life!
Respect your truth without any commitment
If you feel bad in a relationship with a therapist or any other helping relationship, then the worst thing you can do to not respect or love yourself is to continue your relationship and thus live in fear and judgment.
And do not worry, most people live this way and doubt them in the face of a “title.” That is not respect, but fear. Where there is fear, love cannot exist. But without fear, no known choice is possible between fear and love.
A relationship of trust is not a dominant position over the other person who needs you and in this way make you believe that she is superior to you. That kind of relationship is not the love of self or the other, but an obsession with the power of superiority.
How did you create that discomfort in relation to a therapist?
There is only one way to create an uncomfortable feeling and that is through judgment. Remove the judgment and the doubt will disappear. Judgment is a non-acceptance of a situation or conclusion that holds you prisoner in what you are not, then, in what you should be, according to others.
Imagine if you were the only person in the world, how could you be judged by someone and feel that guilt that only makes you hate yourself?
As a result, judgment comes from others and that creates a habit in you, that is normal and then you also judge in your turn, everything that does not agree with what you know, with what is different.
Who could offer you help therapy?
From my experience in creating websites and understanding the attitude and intentions of people through the words used, I really liked the Positive Parenting website.
I must admit that there is not much relevance on the web and in general are institutions and not independent therapists who provide this work. This site has a section of interesting articles in the area of family relationships.
Your last solution is in you
While people are continually reacting to the circumstances of life in their reality, external help is a learned habit as an immediate, temporary solution to alleviate suffering.
The help of others is a preference, but a large number of unconscious people have made it a necessity, creating a dependency, a conditioning, that produces all the conflicts in a relationship.
It is by observing and accepting that need as an illusion, that you can bring into your consciousness, another state of being and consequently, have a free choice in your creative imagination.
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The important thing is not to think of yourself first, but to observe without judgment, since thought is only the dead memory, the past. In this way, the direct observation of reality and the direct observation of truth in his imagination are the keys to permanent change.
The thought must be silent for the creative mind to come into existence. Thought cannot think differently by believing that by changing its thinking, it may think differently. The cause of thought is observation, perception. Change your point of view, your observation and you will change your way of thinking.
You have a choice now through two possibilities, a temporary corrective solution with a therapeutic help or a permanent creative solution, accepting, understanding and expressing a new personal experience.